How you can Let go of the past and Live the life you want.
Are you one of those people who sometimes gets trapped in the past - you know thinking about things over and over - usually these are events that happened a long time ago - but you just can't stop thinking about them? Do you often try to solve events that took place years ago - hoping or wishing they could be different? Or do you find that you're just not ready to move on with life because of something that happened some time ago - and you just can't get over it? If you answered yes to any of the above - you're not alone. There are millions of people around the world just like you - people who just can't seem to let go of the past - and in the process continue to waste their lives away. Well, I'm about to show you how you can release the past and start living the life you want - and it's really not as hard as you think.
Over the past few weeks we've fielded a number of calls and emails from people trying to let go of the past. It seems that they continually think about what was and the way things were. They also feel compelled to try and figure out what went wrong - or how they can resolve things. The most common statement is: "If I only I could go back and fix things." Well you can't - and you shouldn't want to. Because when you focus on the past you deny yourself the future. Read on and I'll explain how you can let go of the past - and start living the life you want.
This Creating Power system teaches you how to release the past - by getting you to focus on what you want in life. Choosing to go back in time is not an option - the only option you have is to go forward - and Creating Power teaches you how to do this - one step at a time. Best of all, Creating Power comes with Personal Coaching - it's the only program of it's kind that does this.
The Past - The Great Teacher.
In order to begin moving on and letting go of the past you first have to take responsibility for what happened. I'm not asking you to accept the blame - I'm just asking you to accept that you did have a role in what happened and that what happened did in fact happen. If you seem stuck over a breakup with a boyfriend or girlfriend - accept that the relationship did come to an end and that you did have a role in how it went and how it ended. Let's face it - if you weren't there it would have never happened. Don't try to figure out what you did wrong in the past - instead focus on what you could do right the next time. Learn from your past - it's a great teacher. Look at the mistakes that were made and focus on what you can do to improve it the next time around.
If you lost a job - don't say that you did nothing wrong. Don't blame everybody else and say - "they did this to me." They didn't do anything to you. They may have done something that had an impact on you - but you also played a role on some level. Focus on what you can do the next time to keep a job and make a great impression. Right about now I get this question: "Yeah, Karim - but they just called me in one day and told me that I was going to be laid off - they were cutting back. What role did I play? How did I make that happen?" You chose to stay at that job. You chose to get comfortable and not look for another job. You chose not to improve your skills and strive to do better. These are acts that you have to take responsibility for. Understand, I'm not saying accept blame. Now the next time you get a good job you could strive to be better. You won't get comfortable. You won't ignore an opportunity to improve your skills. These are some of the lessons that come from that experience.
Every past event, pleasant or not - teaches us something which if we understand can better prepare us for the future. Don't focus on what went wrong - focus on what you can do right the next time. The best way to do this is to think about what you want next and then apply what you learned. The Creating Power System teaches you how to focus on what you want - by getting you to think of the life you want - and not the life you once had. Creating Power is the complete system and comes with personal coaching - make the most of the life you have. Release the past and embrace the future by working with Creating Power.
Leaving the Past in the Past
Hey let's face it - the past is in the past. It's not what is happening now. It doesn't exist today. That relationship that ended, that job that was lost, the loved one who passed away - it's all in the past. Those things and people do not exist today. You exist today - and your present life exists today. These are the things you need to focus on. In order to leave the past in the past - start shifting your focus to the things that need attention today. If you lost a job and don't have work - focus on finding a new job. Remember the lessons learned from the past experience and get out there and start looking for the next thing. Take care of what needs to be done today. If you're in debt because you lost some money in the past - then focus on what needs to be done now - making some additional money so you can get out of debt. If a relationship ended - then what do you want now? Another relationship - then get out there and start meeting new people. If a loved one passed away - then focus on what you need to do today - on your own and begin building a new life.
I'm not trying to be harsh - I just want to show you that once you shift your focus to the present moment - your mind will automatically let go of the past. There will be times that your mind will drift back into the past - that's what it knows so that's where it goes. When this happens you can simply say to yourself - that's in the past - I'm here now and I'm focusing on my new life now. You won't stop thinking about the past right away - but as you continually do this - your mind will begin to adjust. When you do it in conjunction with some of the things that I just outlined - you'll start to move forward and actually enjoy life again. I often have people tell me: "Karim, I just can't seem to let go of the past - I keep thinking about it and just can't stop." You only think about it because you choose not to think about something else. You only think about it because your mind is used to thinking about it and wants to stick to what it knows. Teach it something new and it will move forward. Leave it where it is and it will cling to what it knows. So give your mind something else to focus on - like the present moment and the future and you'll see yourself moving forward.
The mind takes you in the past, tortures you, frightens you, and depresses you - because that's what it knows - that's what identifies with - the mind is comfortable in that zone. The mind doesn't want to stay in the present moment because it is not aware of the present. Only you can make it aware of the present - by focusing on what is important now. Do this when you wake up in the morning - focus on what has to be done that day.This is what the Creating Power system teaches you. It gets you to think about what you want now and what you want next. It gets your mind to move in a different direction - away from the past - into the present and preparing for the future. If you're stuck in the past - I encourage you to get Creating Power and begin living the life you want and deserve.
Change your perception.
Another thing you can do is change the way you see past events. Find a positive spin rather than focusing on the negative. You may say but that's just the way it is - am I not lying to myself if I try to see it differently? How do you know you're not lying to yourself by seeing things the way you do right now? Your current perception may be to view the events of the past in a negative light - but how do you know that is real? It's just the way you see it. Change the way you see things - change your perception and a new reality unfolds. Look at the positive side of things - everything has happened to put you where you are now. You are exactly where you need to be - and you got here because of past events. Now begin focusing on this moment - focus on what you want - and you'll take the next step - to be exactly where you need to be in the future. Learn from the past, then release it - by focusing on the present, and see the past as a friend - pushing you forward to where you need to go.
With Creating Power you take charge of your life and create the success and happiness you want and deserve. Creating Power teaches you how to eliminate the negative thoughts and take control of your mind in the very first week -- you'll be amazed at how much power you have in less than 7-days! You'll be on your way to creating a positive thinking pattern that lasts a lifetime.
My name is Karim Hajee and over the past 20 years I've been teaching my amazing Creating Power System that has helped thousands of people change their lives in ways they never thought possible. What I am about to tell you here today will change your life forever.
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